In the beginning of my treatment, my ‘tough girl’ was like a cheerleader. Rah! Rah! Save the world- Sack that c-a-n-c-e-r .  Then it was like a broody teenager- pissed off most of the time, annoyed and emotional. Then something shifted and I was ready to step up to be the person I was intended to be – Confident and  happy with who I have become.

The other day,I was in the grocery and  heard some ladies talking about their chemo treatments. I realized there were 5 of us in the produce section and 3 of us had undergone chemotherapy. It was time to do something about my dream -it was time to make a leap of faith even though I felt it was "too big" for me. As fate would have it, once I made this decision, all kinds of help stepped up to the plate and volunteered for  project. There was no turning back.


Many moons ago when people would ask what I ultimately wanted to do with my life- I would respond "I want to build something that will outlast me." Meaning,I wanted to change and impact people in a way that would make the world a better place. I had no idea how plans would unfold - as most of us rarely do. Besides bring two beautiful people into the world,  The " Life After Cancer" events are my contribution to the world.

I realized there is a lot of support for women initially diagnosed and going through treatments, surgery etc. but not too much about what happens after the cancer is gone and the treatments are over. I understand there are a lot of people who go on with their former life- a life before cancer-but for me, cancer deeply impacted my life and my relationships. Nothing is the same and to be quite honest. . . I  had a tough time.

People would say "Oh, well you are so young, you will recover fast!" and yep - that's true - but being young and recovering from cancer creates a whole host of physical problems. Yeah, I AM young and I would like my sex life back - I AM young and I did not plan on having debilitating arthritis and fatigue for my 'younger years' I AM young and did not plan on having to worry about bone density at my age or my teeth falling out for crying out loud. Yes, I will admit  - I feel a little robbed of my youth. Whatever-I try not to think about it too much.

A friend recently passed on this quote to me about faith:
Faith...
When you come to the edge of all the light you have, and are about to step off into the darkness of the unknown, faith is knowing one of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on,
or you will be taught how to fly.

It's our time to fly...


My vision and intention is to take "Life After Cancer" events to a national level. After the success in Phoenix I plan to take the event to Ohio and Seattle. I am sure God will let me know where else I am supposed to go. So, please know that your support is not only for the event in AZ, but across the country. Here Are the details so far:

Life After Cancer: A Tough Girl's Guide to Health and Happiness

* Raw Food Expert and Nutrition Consultant
* Exercise Specialist
* Style and Image Expert
* Life Coach
* Stress Management
* Food
* Prizes
* Laughter,support and FUN!

A donation  between $35.00 - $50.00 is suggested, however Dr. Rubin has generously donated  select sponsorships. All contributions go to this and future events across  the nation.

When: October 30th 2009 from 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.

Where: Fairmont Scottsdale Princess
Scottsdale Arizona

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